Crossing state lines and inviting new friends into the celebration...

This past weekend, my 40y40p celebration crossed state lines into Raleigh, NC. Mary and I flew up to NC to spend the weekend with her friend Tanya and enjoy a much needed getaway from Florida. Thankfully the snow had melted and the weather during the day was gorgeous. After a very late 3am arrival, we kicked off Saturday with a little retail therapy. After picking up a few great deals, we headed home to get ready for the evening. The night introduced us to more new friends as we enjoyed dinner in downtown Raleigh at Buku. Looking around the table and getting to know everyone I realized that no matter what you may have going on in your life at the moment everyone needs to take a step back, relax and just enjoy an evening out with new friends. After a delicious dinner, we walked over to Raleigh Memorial Auditorium to see a performance of The Producers. If you aren't familiar with the show it's a comedy meant to offend just about everyone as two producers set out to create the worst broadway show ever in order to rip off their investors. Without giving away the ending, needless to say the result is not what they intended. The real lesson true to life.

Today we woke up to a beautiful sunny day and decided to go for a hike in the Duke Forest. The trek was a little over a mile but took us down a beautiful path to a river. Just a few miles away from the city yet a million miles away from reality. A very peaceful escape.

Landing in Orlando, I was welcomed home by the most beautiful sunset. The picture above doesn't do it justice. One of my favorite things to do is to fly at night. As we approached Orlando the sun just slid under the horizon. Flying at night is so relaxing as small lights light up the neighborhoods just below us. Then with a sudden hit we're back to reality.

The takeaway this weekend is that taking a chance and trying something new can give you unexpected, good results. I had no expectations for the weekend other than seeing a show. But what the weekend actually offered was a way to connect with new people, places and a chance to try new things. It's amazing how a quick flight can clear your head and give you a new perspective on life. Here's hoping all my friends take advantage and say yes to the unexpected. You never know what you may gain in return.